Posts Tagged: third culture


17
Dec 09

3rd Culture Thursday: Who is my neighbor?

[The common theme throughout the 3rd Culture Thursday posts will be the definition of third culture from author & pastor Dave Gibbons: third culture = "the mindset and the will to love, learn, and serve in any culture, even in the midst of pain and discomfort."]

One of the reasons why I believe we should operate from a third culture mindset is that it parallels the life of Jesus. We all feel that if we offer a perspective of grace and love to the world that we are following in the footsteps of Jesus. Well, this is true to a certain extent, but it fails to acknowledge a core value that Jesus taught and lived out. That is, living out the second Greatest Commandment in the proper context. When we learn that the Greatest Commandment was to love God with everything we have, we get that pretty easily. Then, when we hear the second Greatest Commandment, which is to love our neighbor like ourselves (Mark 12:28-31) we think we get it, but we often-times fail to put two-and-two together. Yes, we are called by Jesus to love our neighbor, but just exactly who is our neighbor?

When you live in a suburban neighborhood with a bunch of middle-class people, you may think you should go knock on your next door neighbor’s door and invite him over for dinner or something. While this may be your neighbor in your neighborhood, Jesus is really calling us to go outside of our neighborhoods into the unknown areas and love people that are not like us. This is confirmed in Luke 10:25-37 NIV:

On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to test Jesus. “Teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?” “What is written in the Law?” he replied. “How do you read it?” He answered: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.‘” “You have answered correctly,” Jesus replied. “Do this and you will live.” But he wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?” In reply Jesus said: “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he fell into the hands of robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, took him to an inn and took care of him. The next day he took out two silver coins and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Look after him,’ he said, ‘and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.’ “Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?” The expert in the law replied, “The one who had mercy on him.” Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise.

As you probably already know, in the time of Jesus’ earthly ministry the Samaritans were a very hated and lowly people in the eyes of Jews. No one outside of Samaria gave them any attention. Therefore, a Samaritan definitely owed nothing to a Jew, nor could he ever expect to be paid back for any good deed. This was a very profound and radical illustration that Jesus delivered in the form of parable that day. When he says, “Go and do likewise.” this is his calling upon each of us as well. We are to love people we don’t know and may not even care to know — love them as we would want to be loved. To follow in the footsteps of Christ will cause us to have: the mindset and the will to love, learn, and serve in any culture, even in the midst of pain and discomfort. To follow Jesus is to experience the pain and discomfort of third culture.

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10
Dec 09

3rd Culture Thursday

In response to some things stirring within me, along with the sense that there is some cultural context we are striving to find yet failing in our search, I am devoting my blogspace on Thursdays to what I am calling “3rd Culture Thursday.” It’s an exploration and conversation related to the idea of third culture kids and how we as the church should move towards embracing the concept within our own communities. This whole 3rd culture idea became aware to me from reading Dave Gibbons‘ book: The Monkey and the Fish: Liquid Leadership For A Third-Culture Church.

Gibbons defines 3rd culture as:

The mindset and the will to love, learn, and serve in any culture, even in the midst of pain and discomfort.

A key element to the discussion is this idea of being committed to something while being in the midst of pain and discomfort. It involves honesty, conflict, hard work and an attitude of openness. These are all hard things to deal with on an individual basis, but imagine what life would be like if we were to take them all on once and then some. Imagine the amazing things that come about if we would at least try.

Here’s a video from Dave Gibbons that gives a bit of insight on the 3rd culture mindset:

Does this resonate with you? Are you intrigued? Beginning to feel a sense of connectedness? If so, it is my hope that this forum will help educate and be used as a way to lend a voice to others and engage in some new dialog.

Learn more by visiting Dave Gibbons’ 3rd culture website: http://www.3culture.tv or by reading his book: The Monkey And The Fish. Also, look for tweets with the hashtag #3ct or follow the aggregate list of tweets on twubs.com/3ct as I will be tweeting 140 characters at a time throughout the week to help facilitate better understanding and dialog on 3rd culture.

See you here next Thursday as we kick-off the conversation with a post titled “Who is your neighbor?”

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5
Mar 09

Dave Gibbons Blog Tour Stops Here!

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Through a notice on facebook a few weeks ago, I answered a call to submit a question to Dave Gibbons, pastor of Newsong Church and author in regards to his blog tour to promote his new book The Monkey and The Fish: Liquid Leadership For A Third-Culture Church. Guess what? My question was selected and Dave Gibbons shares his answer with us as part of his blog tour here today!

Dave Ingland: Can a church that doesn’t present third-culture ministry be relevant to the next generation?

Dave Gibbons: Dave, it can be relevant but not necessarily fulfilling the mandate for the church to love our neighbors, someone not like us. For the church to mature and to radically live out the second purpose of the church, the embrace of third-culture is really the embrace of the second commandment. It’s the heart of God. It’s not an option even if it wasn’t relevant to the next generation.

Are you familiar with the idea of third-culture? Why not pick up a copy of Dave Gibbons’ new book The Monkey and The Fish: Liquid Leadership For A Third-Culture Church from the Zondervan website by clicking here. Zondervan has graciously allowed me to provide you with a free preview chapter from the book by clicking here. You can also learn more about third-culture ideas from the 3culture website here.

Also, be sure to check out the Zondervan Publishing blog for links to the rest of the questions Dave Gibbons responded to in his blog tour today by clicking here.

Thanks to Chris Fann of Zondervan and Dave Gibbons for allowing this blog to be a stop on the Dave Gibbons Blog Tour today!

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14
Nov 08

Third Culture

In trying to study and learn a little more about Dave Gibbons‘ theories on Third Culture I was hit with his definition:

Third Culture is the mindset and will to love, learn, and serve in any culture. Even in the midst of pain and discomfort.

Wow, he’s preaching my language! Here is Dave sharing insight on Third Culture with Newsong Church:

And here is a link to a video of Pastor Gibbons sharing insight on Third Culture with Dallas Theological Seminary on 10/31/08:

Here is a link to the Third Culture website:

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