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The only reason I post in response to the cnn.com story breaking today (click here for the full article) that Senator (and long-time presidential hopeful) John Edwards is in a scandal due to having an affair with a woman while his wife was battling cancer is that I am curious how the public responds in comparison to what Victoria Osteen goes through.

So far a lot of the public sentiment regarding the Edwards story is that the woman he had an affair with is obviously out for money and publicity. However, does anyone truly think that if the flight attendant suing Victoria Osteen, due to an incident that happened on a flight out of Houston, would have sued and gotten the same attention had it been you or me on that flight that supposedly caused a scene?

Just another case-in-point that those in the ministry, especially when they are high profile such as the Osteens or Ted Haggard, must put themselves to a higher standard as there will always be unscrupulous people looking to take advantage of situations that we present to them. Surely it may not be possible to always be above such iniquities and certainly there will be those that lie and make up stories to try and bring us down undeservedly, but when we accept the call to ministry we also accept everything that comes with it. Kind of like an actor that makes it big in Hollywood, but then complains that he has no privacy anymore. Sorry, it comes with the territory!

As I say much too often, I am so thankful that through our goal of perfection, when we fall short there is always grace. If not from those around us, it will always be available through Christ and forgiveness is ours if we seek it from a repentant heart.

Well, as I posted yesterday, Victoria Osteen is being sued by a Continental Airlines flight attendant over verbal & physical abuse and the subsequent emotional distress of it all (click here for more of the story from cnn.com). The question being raised now is what importance does Osteen’s payment of a $3,000 fine from the FAA bear on her being guilty of the charges? Osteen says nothing happened on the flight and that the flight attendant (and other witnesses) are confused about what they remember. She claims that she paid the FAA fine just to be done with the incident and to avoid embarrassment to Lakewood Church–it was not, she contends, an admission of guilt.

So, now it’s not just how she supposedly acted on the flight over not getting a stain on her seat the size of a 50 cent piece removed quickly enough, but now people are coming out and blasting her over not being truthful about the incident.

It’s all over the news, and here is a comment to a post about this from another blog site:

There is nothing frivolous about this case, and the wife is a liar. This case isn’t about the stain on the seat. The Preacher’s Wife pushed and injured the flight attendant. The wife was fined by the FAA for her conduct and she paid it, an obvious admission that she was, in fact, disorderly and combative with the flight crew. So here it is: the FAA fined her and she paid it. If she didn’t do it, then she lied by admitting it and paying the fine. Christians shouldn’t lie. Christians who do not follow their rules are crummy Christians. Therefore, the wife is a crummy Christian. The Bible doesn’t say only tell the truth when it is easy, and lie to be expedient. Either it is right or wrong to lie, no exceptions, no shades of gray.
My problem with Christians isn’t what they believe, it’s that they don’t believe what they say they believe.

Again I say this, regardless of who we are we are going to be put under scrutiny from those outside of the kingdom of grace. We can sit around and claim foul all day long or choose to ignore such things because we know God gives us mercy through his grace, but then why do we have examples of Jesus calling us to be different? Through his 3 year ministry he was faced with tremendous scrutiny and the Pharisees were just following him waiting for the opportunity to get him arrested. He never slipped up and was finally arrested on a claim of blasphemy and this required help from someone within his inner circle who betrayed him (Judas).

It’s time we took responsibility for our actions and right or wrong, we should hold onto our character and admit our shortcomings and ask for grace. Are we here for self-preservation, or are we here to bring glory to the one who saved us from eternal death? Remember, it should be all about Christ and never about us. Let us remember all that Jesus endured on his way to the cross so that we could stand here today and profess him as Lord and follow the path of righteousness in honor of his ultimate sacrifice for humanity.

PS. None of my comments are intended to incriminate or judge Mrs. Osteen. I only draw attention to the event of her trial as a means to shed light on the judgment that comes upon us if and when we do things that may cause us to fall short in the eyes of others and why it is important to consider the ramifications of our actions more seriously as the eyes of the world (and God) are upon us.

I couldn’t believe what I read on cnn.com today (click here for the full article). A flight attendant is suing Victoria Osteen because Osteen reportedly got upset and displayed some un-Christian like actions which caused the flight attendant to lose her faith. Seriously, a jury has been selected and the case is about to start trial. Apparently it was such a serious incident that the FAA fined Victoria Osteen $3000 for interfering with a crew member.

This is a crazy story in my opinion, but it opens up the question of whether the actions of a pastor can cause someone to lose their faith? I’m sure it’s happened where a pastor does something, such as secretly takes money from the church, and then people in the church leave their faith because of it. Should our faith reside in what our pastors do? I don’t think so! That is the glorious nature of living in Christ is that we are each called to have a unique purpose and that we may enjoy a direct, eternal relationship with him. In no other faith can one be so united with their god as Christianity is with our God.

Another thing this incident brings up is that none of us are above our own actions and that everything we do will have ramifications and can potentially cause harm to another. We are called to let Christ be the light of the world through us. Pastors in-particular are viewed under greater scrutiny and we need to be aware of that. While it may not be fair, it is the way things are and when we accept the role of pastor we must accept that it comes with this additional scrutiny. Thankfully, through Christ there is grace!